Stephblog – Friendship should always offer something unique and irreplaceable. Each friendship should place a lifetime value on you,this is why we spend so much time cultivating these relationships and learning how to be a good friend.We all know a true friend is hard to find. So when you do find one, hang on tight!
It doesn’t hurt also, to let your best friends know every now and then just how much they mean to you. It takes nothing from you to celebrate every little value someone adds to you. Appreciation always bring more blessings. Indeed, not everybody can make many friends, because we all have different purpose and also note that no friendship happen by accident. The most important thing is not in the number of friends you can quantify, but it is in the quality those friends posses.
Right from my primary school I have always been seated amidst girls. Of a truth, you can’t choose your family; but one thing is sure, you can choose your friends. I have decided to invest in people, and I discovered that my personality often accommodates people. Do you know, that often times; other people’s ideas are often welcoming than that of yours? Well, try finding out why they say “two good heads are better off than one”. Find a group of people who challenge and inspire you, spend a lot of time with them, and it will change your life.
Anytime I ask people what they don’t like about me, they often say I got so much preference for the female sex. Should I tell you something, please hate me with my many female friends…
Infact, the opportunities that ‘girls’ have given me, I think I will love for you to keep disliking me because of girls.
To begin with, a wonderful and inspiring soul named Bukunmi Oluwashina introduced me into Nollywood. Which I would never seem to forget how casually our meeting each other played out. Another female sex I can never neglect in appreciation is this girl called Sharon. Sharon introduced me into Fashion, Showbiz, Entertainment, went as far as discovering that I had a God-given management skills in me, and also incubated the nature of expression of writing in me. Do you know how severe that could be on the impact of one’s life? I bet you may not comprehend that. You know, If am to tell you the influence of so many ladies in my life, I will solely write five books particularly on Adigun Nafisat, who to be honest with, needed a manager with experience and decided to come to me. *Your greatness starts the day you recognise the friendship that will work for you.*
I love my male friends too. But candidly, how many of the male friends you got, support you like a lady would? Although, I have few male friends and they are amazing too! I can’t detest that.
Women support each other in various ways either small or large every day, without thinking, which was what kept them going even when the world came up with new and exciting ways to crush them.
Women instinctually know how to nourish each other, and just being with each other is restorative.
Lots of women indeed have very great significant in my life. From the wonderful woman who birth me, to my awesome female cousins, female colleagues, besties, crushes, lovers, and so many of you I’ve had a relationship and rapport with. You all are amazing and well appreciated in my life. And I must say thank you for being a part of my life as a woman! Bless!!