Stephblog( Nigeria)- “If you can’t control what has happened or is happening, you can control how you respond to it”.
Negative energy to people we love when we are angry is not good. Don’t misdirect your anger, you can get the soothing you need and have your mood changed in a few minutes by just asking for a hug. It will relieve your anger.
Why don’t we support who we love ?
We should encourage, lift and strengthen one another, because the positive energy spread to one will be felt by us all. So we are connected as one , just like the human body parts. If you are not willing to support the one you love, then you are as good as loosing him or her completely. Unsupportive attitude makes your loved ones feel invalid. Do you know your small support could accomplish a big dream?
If you see your relationship as been valid, you will definitely support them. If your loved ones don’t support you, kindly leave if you can still leave! Don’t allow your dream to be destroyed by someone who has another dream he/she is supporting.
I know what I just mentioned there. It’s the people in a valid relationship that can go through the labor of hard work, face challenges and can also withstand the test of hard times together not giving up or falling out. Giving up is not the same as giving in, this is a process that needs to be considered when you are at odds with each other.
Relationship is all about compromise. Remember that you can agree to disagree without being disagreeable. Relationships are all about compromise. Remember too that you can agree to disagree without being disagreeable. You should never give up on love no matter how hard things get, Never Dare To!. Don’t leave when he or she is only trying his or her best to stay with you, pay attention, they have feelings too. He or She is also human like you. Sometimes, we make mistakes, we must also learn how to forgive.
Some relationships today, about 30% are hovering in the clouds due to “financial infidelity”. Going into a relationship because of money is thinking less of yourself. For the love of money is the root of all evil,you can’t buy happiness and fulfillment with money. Love can never be equated to possession, rather, Love builds possession.
In my previous article (click here ), I said, “Loving is genderless”. Giving is an act of love, if its within your capacity to help your partner, do so without expecting returns. But if you are going to steal from the one who you love, then you have a problem. Go and get help.
We are all guilty of telling lies whether white or black(chuckles). There is something about me when I tell a lie when I need to, I try hard to tell the truth sooner than later when its no longer worthy. The thing is, give up totally on dishonesty, and your relationship would change and work differently. Stay with it?! And you would see your mate lose all trust with you and and partnership. Learn to appreciate the truth when they confess, If you are willing to have them open up always, egg them on. It’s alright to be angry but don’t kill the conscience that brought the truth out of them.
Finally, relationships can only be killed by bad attitudes and not by good attitudes. If you can drop your bad habits, you can have a good relationship.